You know the old story about the frog and the boiling water? You know, if you drop the frog in boiling water, it will jump out; if you drop the frog in water and slowly heat the water to boiling it will sit there and get boiled to death. That is how life is, for the most part. I have made step by step decisions that have left me in a situation that is untenable. It is only through looking back can I see how the water got so hot. Trouble is, I don't know if I should jump, or do I wait, like the frog, hoping that someone will turn down the water. And what would that look like? Will I sense the change in water temp and complain, not realizing that the change is for my own survival? Only time will tell.